Memoirs of a Geezer
Reflections and Observations -- A Bright Passage from the Fantasies of Youth to Illuminations of Advanced Maturity!
This Episode: Grandchildren -- The True Treasures of a Long and
Distinguished Life in and out of GeezerHood!!
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| Such a handsome lad. Love the Colorful Shades! |
There are of course -- in the sphere of building great relationships with grandchildren -- certain imperatives: Abundant and Unconditional Love, Frequent and Well-Deserved Praise, Support, Positive Affirmations... Many and often... That's how and what we do, and will continue to do; that is, to shower our much-loved grandkids with the most important gifts we can give them, the aforementioned...
We -- SweetHeart and I -- are privileged to have our first-born, a film and musical phenomenon, in the mix; a brilliant athlete and soccer star; a cross-country and track star athlete and a champion tennis player, and soccer star athlete as well. But their far more important attributes are the human ones -- their loving and generous personalities, their remarkable senses of humor, their friendship, their kindnesses, their absolutely delightful behavioral characteristics!
We are fortunate beyond my poor, or anyone's ability to heap praise upon them, or to offer our profound gratitude to have them in our lives!! I mean, yeah, we're very lucky. (I'm guessing many grandparental folk feel the same... Yes?... Right?!... Are you listening out there??!)
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| A Great Star on and Off the Pitch, and Handsome to Boot! |
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| Such a Talented and Graceful Runner. Shown above at a Cross Country Event |
The gifts they've given us, like discovering a cache of uncut diamonds while digging in a garden plot, include outstanding films enhanced by original music scores along with opportunities to appear in said films, hours of sometimes sun-drenched or wind-chilled pleasure witnessing soccer (Euro-football) action on the pitch, not to mention a race to score 121 points round a circuitous (preferred!) and colorful track (cribbage).
Racing in challenging terrain or round an oval course is another delight we have enjoyed thanks to a granddaughter who loves running, does so superbly, setting personal
records with nearly every event. Making the State Meet as a result of her abilities and her prowess! She is poetry in a track uniform.
records with nearly every event. Making the State Meet as a result of her abilities and her prowess! She is poetry in a track uniform.
We never complain of cricks in our necks, pains or anxiety watching our youngest grandchild smack a tennis ball with skill and poise, optionally lobbing it just out of an opponent's reach. She -- an excellent singles player -- and her team of both singles and doubles made the State Tournament and emerged triumphant. She plays soccer as well, and does so quite well!
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| A Star Runner, both Cross Country and Track -- Relay and Whatever They call the Mile, These Days! (1500 Meters? Metric Mile...?) (What's LuLu Lookin' at?) |
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| She plays tennis, she plays soccer, and she crochets superbly as one can readily bear witness! Her Turtle Loves Her Too! |
We offer praise and gratitude to said children for making such titles and transformative variations possible! They, the grandchildren, are life's previous gems, like sunshine, their faces are glorious portraits... I mean, overall, as the title infers... Treasures worthy to be installed in the Prado or the Louvre or at least our local art center...! Don't argue with me!!
I think I said that correctly, or conveyed properly what I think I meant to say! Didn't I? (I mean, of course, the "transformative variations" phrase??!!)
Of course there were challenges in the early or formative years of those beloved grandkids. Hauling them in the big red coaster wagon down, but then up the steep hill from a lakeside "raceway" to the top of that mountainous incline. I dripped, was drenched and soaked in sweat as though I had accidentally wandered stupefied into a car wash without the car. (I think I only did that once, but I may have been inebriated, or simply stunned by an errant golf ball!... or was it a dropped brick in a construction site??!!).... I can't readily recall... But refreshing, the car wash, that is!!
Oh, and didn't we have a hoot throwing them into the air and letting then land squealing and laughing crazily on a queen mattress. Making them manic and buzzed in the process, and exhausting ourselves as well. Our children were not always thrilled with that outcome, meaning returning to them the half-crazed and wired grandkids of course. Lots of sugary treats didn't help much! But SweetHeart and I sure had fun in the process!
(Special Note of Dedication: For Coen (Coey, Co Co), Sean (Seany), Lucy (LuLu) and Sophia (PhiPhi, Phia) who give us such joy, laughter, love and happy adventures! Thank You!!)
Submitted 11-13-2025 -- by Joel K
